We help leaders and parents lower reactivity and increase connection

First in you, then in your people.

Leadership anxiety is more complex than 'worry' and 'fear.'

It is a lava bubbling under the surface, ready to erupt.

With Capable Life You'll Learn How To


You get all access to:
What's Included
Every course we create
As soon as we load a new course, you already own it.
Access to Steve Cuss
Steve offers zooms several times per year to share his latest work and thoughts and also to take your questions and cases.
Access to help whenever you need it.
You can join a coach zoom or post a question in the forums and our coaches will personally answer.

And you also get access to:


15 courses with self assessments to track progress and help you practice tools. Once you are a member for a year, you keep access to all completed modules for the life of this website.

Discussion Forums

Leaders need a safe place to share their heart and hear, ‘me too, you’re not alone.’

Our forums are password protected and designed to help you find confidential support from peers.

Monthly Zoom Q&A

Join one of our certified coaches on a monthly zoom for Q&A, case discussions and updates on what you’re working on.

Capable Life members currently come from 14 countries covering 15 time zones, so each month we offer AM and PM zoom options to cover your time zone.


Exclusive ONLY to members
Downloadable PDF’s
Documents for You to Keep
Exclusive Masterclasses
Deep Dive with our Experts
Private Case Studies
Includes Bonus Video Content
PLUS: 20% Discount on Coaching
Save on your one on one or group coaching with a certified Capable Life coach


20% Discount on Coaching
Save on your one on one or group coaching with a certified Capable Life coach

You can be a Connected, Aware, Present, ABLE (CAP-ABLE) human in the work place and home place.

Lower reactivity. Increase connectedness.​

Members from 14 countries and a variety of vocations

Hear from some of them:

You cannot read or listen your way to transformation.

You need intentional tools and a proven path that we offer in Capable Life.
Let's Get Started
What you’ll get:
  • Video Modules & Assessments $804
  • Confidential Discussion Forum $120
  • Monthly Zoom Q&A $720
  • Downloadable PDF References $80
  • Exclusive Masterclasses $402
  • Private Case Studies $296
20% Discount on Coaching

Today's Price

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$36 per month
$360 per year

Regular Price:
$42 per month or $420 per year


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Want to sign up a group?

Discounts start at 10+ team members. Starting at $36.00 per member.

Regular Price:
$42 per member
We stand by our training and strategies 100%. If you do not get a clear and transformative path to identifying and managing your anxiety in 30 days we will cancel and refund your membership. No hassle, no questions asked.

Frequently Asked Questions

Most use Capable Life like a self paced class. They watch a 10 minute video each week, work the discussion and zooms. This approach takes anywhere from 20 – 60 minutes per week, including discussion and zooms.

Others use Capable Life like a reference library. They ‘pull a module off the shelf’ as situations arise, they join zooms only when they need.

Absolutely! Capable life has parents, business people, medical professionals, missionaries and pastors.

These tools were born from a theory called “Family Systems Theory” and can greatly benefit anyone who deals with home or work place dynamics.


The online community and zoom are provided so that you can share and receive peer support. However, if you are uncomfortable for whatever reason to get involved you do not have to. Some of our participants choose a pseudonym username for anonymity.

No. Capable Life is legally designed for a single use license per subscription. Many teams sign their group up and assign videos for members to watch and then host their own team discussions.

It is common to spend years carrying triggers and pressures. This theory is not a magic bullet, but because it is relatively unknown and quite revolutionary in its approach, many people experience early breakthrough and relief.

We have done the extra work of building a path of tools and concepts anyone can walk. Of course, what is also true is that after a couple of quick wins, the deeper, longer work is ahead to experience profound, long term change.


Proper one on one or family therapy is a state licensed science. This program is an integration of psychological theory, change theory and theology. There are many situations (PTSD, G.A.D, Clinical Depression) that go beyond the scope of Capable Life. We help you manage anxiety that is generated from leadership and parenting challenges and pressures. We teach a model of ‘Systems Theory’ that can revolutionize your wellbeing, but we would not encourage you to see CL as a replacement for licensed therapy.

Capable Life takes the privacy of our members very seriously, as a result we do our best to ensure their privacy. All our tools and discussion forums are password protected and we utilize a web hosting provider who actively monitors the health and security of the site.

Some members, for their own reasons, choose a username that keeps their identity private.

We provide discounted coaching to CL members. Once you log in, you will see a menu item for coaching. You can submit a request for group or one on one coaching.

You will have a member dashboard of categories: video modules, zoom meetings, masterclasses, PDF downloads. The heart of CL is a series of video modules made up of brief videos 8 – 12 minutes each.

YES! Unlike many memberships, once you have been a member of Capable Life for one year, you retain ongoing access to all modules you completed while you were a paying member. We will be here as a reference library for you long after you’ve paid.

Capable Life isn’t necessarily for everyone. Monthly members can cancel anytime. Annual members can cancel for a complete refund within 30 days of joining.